When you change

There is a time when you go into Hermit mode. 

You know what that means. You've already experienced it. 

Or going through it right now:

- You wished to be held, 

- You wished to be friendly, 

- You wished to be needed. 

So, you worked your heart, hands, and head towards some goal in work, relationships, friends, collectively -- 

but your desired outcome has never arrived. It is not your fault. 

It is an opportunity to see clearly -- What goals were never yours to carry? 

What of them do you go through because someone didn't want to take their responsibility? 

So, you stepped into the role of a leader. 

When you actually needed to tell them -- "Hey, it's your job to be the ruler here. 

Don't make my life harder than it should be at this period of time. 

I will step in when my time comes".

Who was this person for you? 

Who made you feel as if the world's walls would break if you did not step up to the ship's ruler?

-- When did you become the Ruler? Who is it? What are you repeating here?

Well, this is one of 13 archetypes we are discovering in the book of "Life's Branding" -- 

Check it out, and let me know if you would like to read further. 

Cheers, Lilita 🌹